Many people hold a misconception about how emotion persuades. For the most part, it’s not contagious on its own. You can’t count on delight to spread from someone to others. Enthusiasm is not like a forest fire that jumps the gap from one dry treetop to another.
To persuade, excitement has to be informative as well as emotional. Suppose I tell you in a voice overflowing with admiration that my favourite restaurant is fabulous. How can you know whether you’d love it too?
Now I tell you instead – equally enchanted – that it’s quiet and romantic. I also describe the menu, with traditional Italian favourites and a mouthwatering dessert tray. Then you either let my enthusiasm influence you or you reject it because you prefer innovative menus and a lively, upbeat atmosphere.
Excitement by itself isn’t very compelling.
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